19th August 2018

Reality Check, thanks to Umer Noor

It has been a very long time since I met someone who was truly genuine. He would be an irritant at times and hurt you with his bluntness the rest, but you will still depend on him. For he is honest. When huma told me how he values this quality, I couldn’t relate to it. But its absence makes your realize how essential it is. How it helps you to keep your feet on the ground.And today while I was battling with unpleasantness, he said somethin that I can’t overlook. His words, their power, have me in their grasp. He said:
U know sometimes we human beings rush into things. We want to fall headlong into love n we just force ourselves to fall. When we dont even really want it. And then we just sort of cling to the other person even though we are not really in love with them. But just for the sake of not being alone we keep hanging on. And we grip so hard in order to not fall off that we hurt the other person and they try to shake you off but you think its the ride that is bumpy, making you cling much harder. At such a time we need to clear our head, sit quietly and think. Think about everything and see where you stand. True in your heart and true in your mind. In complete harmony with honest thoughts, we need to make a decision. Sometimes it is easy and at others, plain hard to imagine even implementing the solution cuz it hurts so bloody bad. But you got to be strong and take the step in order to save urself frm destruction.”
This I have shared for it is a solution for problems many of us face. Disillusionment is not the way to be.
I truly cherish your friendship honey…and I do hope you get married to the girl of my choice =D

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