There are many women who wear glasses on a daily basis without giving it a second thought. A wedding, however, is not just any other day, and even those who really like their glasses often wonder if they should wear them during their wedding. To help you find the solution that makes you most comfortable, here is great advice for brides who wear glasses.
If you need glasses to see, well, you certainly cannot be without some sort of vision aid on your wedding day. And yet, when you see pictures of brides in magazines, do you ever see one in glasses? No, because there is something about a formal bridal dress and glasses that do not seem to be a great combination, or at least that is how most brides feel. But it certainly would not do to stumble down the way because you cannot see where you are going! So what is a vision-impaired bride to do?
The first and most popular option is to switch out your eyeglasses for contact lenses. They can take some getting used to, so if you are not accustomed to wearing contacts, get a pair at least a month or two before the wedding. That way you will have the chance to try them out and discover if you like how they feel.
Brides who find glasses to be more comfortable but can tolerate contact lenses at least for a little while might choose to wear their contacts for the ceremony and formal portraits and then switch over to their specs during the reception. There are several reasons why this can be a good compromise.
Another good reason to wear contacts for the wedding ceremony is that you will not have to worry about glare reflecting off of the lenses from flash photography. There are quite a few brides who fear that their glasses will be a distraction in the wedding photographs. It is not just the glare that worries them, but that their frames may appear dated and will spoil their enjoyment of the wedding album in the future. This is a legitimate concern – think about all of those pictures of 1960s brides in heavy black framed spectacles; the first thing that you see is their eyewear, not their faces or even their bridal dresses.
But if you really do want to stick to your glasses…
For those brides who cannot tolerate contacts or feel like giving up their glasses for a day is too phony, there are a few ways to make their eyewear fit the special occasion. A few months before the wedding, pick out new frames which complement the style of your wedding dress and bridal jewellery. In general, the more thin and discreet the frame, the better, and be sure to get an anti-reflective coating on the lenses. Select glasses that will look well with your bridal jewellery, or vice versa. In other words, silver jewellery will be best with silver tone frames, or choose gold frames to wear with gold bridal jewellery.
Whichever way you decide to go, the most important thing is to feel like yourself on your wedding day. After all, you know that your fiancé loves you just the way you are.